Sunday, April 12, 2009

FLowers ARe REd. by Harry Chapin. How Does this Poem Make You Feel?

Flowers are Red


by Harry Chapin





The little boy went first day of school


He got some crayons and started to draw


He put colors all over the paper


For colors was what he saw


And the teacher said.. What you doin%26#039; young man


I%26#039;m paintin%26#039; flowers he said


She said... It%26#039;s not the time for art young man


And anyway flowers are green and red


There%26#039;s a time for everything young man


And a way it should be done


You%26#039;ve got to show concern for everyone else


For you%26#039;re not the only one


And she said...


Flowers are red young man


Green leaves are green


There%26#039;s no need to see flowers any other way


Than they way they always have been seen





But the little boy said...


There are so many colors in the rainbow


So many colors in the morning sun


So many colors in the flower and I see every one





Well the teacher said.. You%26#039;re sassy


There%26#039;s ways that things should be


And you%26#039;ll paint flowers the way they are


So repeat after me.....





And she said...


Flowers are red young man


Green leaves are green


There%26#039;s no need to see flowers any other way


Than they way they always have been seen





But the little boy said...


There are so many colors in the rainbow


So many colors in the morning sun


So many colors in the flower and I see every one





The teacher put him in a corner


She said.. It%26#039;s for your own good..


And you won%26#039;t come out %26#039;til you get it right


And all responding like you should


Well finally he got lonely


Frightened thoughts filled his head


And he went up to the teacher


And this is what he said.. and he said





Flowers are red, green leaves are green


There%26#039;s no need to see flowers any other way


Than the way they always have been seen





Time went by like it always does


And they moved to another town


And the little boy went to another school


And this is what he found


The teacher there was smilin%26#039;


She said...Painting should be fun


And there are so many colors in a flower


So let%26#039;s use every one





But that little boy painted flowers


In neat rows of green and red


And when the teacher asked him why


This is what he said.. and he said





Flowers are red, green leaves are green


There%26#039;s no need to see flowers any other way


Than the way they always have been seen.

FLowers ARe REd. by Harry Chapin. How Does this Poem Make You Feel?
The poem describes the experience of so mnay children - not with their teachers (although it does happen) but with their parents. It%26#039;s not that their parents are stupid or unimaginative or intentionally cruel - but they miss the beauty and creativity that the child brings and the child comes to believe that it%26#039;s not OK to be fully themselves. So they create a %26#039;false self%26#039;, a child who will get it right and be who they have thought the adults wanted them to be. And it works.... and so they stick with it because it is seriously scarey to do it any other way - they fear they will be rejected and unloved, although all this is on an unconscious level. And then they arrive in my consulting room, or that of any other psychotherapist or counsellor, as adults, feeling that their relationships never work, that they are unfulfilled, that life has been a real disappointment. It takes a lot of courage for someone to begin to let themselves know about, let alone talk about, the inner child who saw all the colours...... but if everything conspires to make it possible, there is a beautiful healing and the child glows again in the adult.
Reply:it really is an amazing poem. it realy describes so much more than just flowers. it shows how not just teachers, but people want to mold others into what they believe is right. and how they force them to see things how they see it and it is not alwasy a better way. hmm. anothe example is how children have to take writing tests and they are graded. i think it is sometimes rediculous that writing is graded. it is purely an opinion.
Reply:First of all, Harry Chapin was one of the MOST amazing song-writers of the world. He was so concerned with the problems of the world and his music and songs portrayed this.





It was a shame that the world lost him so early in his life.





This song is about accepting differences in people.





This song, shows us that children are influenced by the important people in their lives and that this influence is great. This child was first taught to draw something a certain way and was punished for being different. When he finally conformed to the way %26quot;things should have been,%26quot; he was accepted and allowed to join in with the other children.





The feeling that he was different was carried through until he met another teacher who accepted his differences and allowed him to be himself.





Amazing Harry Chapin......Thank you



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