Sunday, April 12, 2009

Do you send get well flowers after an attempted suicide?

Well, I suppose it depends on how close you are to the person. Maybe don%26#039;t call them Get Well Flowers but more of I am thinking of You and Here for You if You need Me Flowers. And send an encouraging note saying that you are there for them.

Do you send get well flowers after an attempted suicide?
Why not??????
Reply:Wow, you are really, really naughty.
Reply:No - you take them out in nature to pick flowers...





Sending flowers seems impersonal - I%26#039;d feel like you just checked something else off of your to-do list.
Reply:Yes because the person is sick and suffering. Anyone who attemps suicide has some mental illness.
Reply:Maybe a card that lets them know you were thinking of them and a nice home cooked meal (or store bought if you dont want to cook it). Dont send them get well flowers because they arent sick- they were just going through something they didnt really know how to handle.





Maybe a nice book to read, or get them something you know they really enjoyed.
Reply:a %26quot;get well%26quot; message might not cut it...but don%26#039;t let that stop you from reaching out to the person. A friendship bouquet...a handwritten note reminding them that they are not alone...perhaps a small momento (such as a flat stone) that can be carried around in one%26#039;s pocket to remind that person on a daily basis that they are never truly alone or out of their loved ones%26#039; thoughts for long....those might be more appropriate.
Reply:*L* I wouldn%26#039;t.





Maybe a card that says %26#039;maybe next time%26#039;...Just kidding!
Reply:Don%26#039;t say get well, maybe I%26#039;m thinking of you
Reply:Yes. Flowers are an excellent thing to send. They send a message that there was nothing to be ashamed of and remind that there is a %26quot;get well%26quot; in the situation. I think it%26#039;s a lovely idea.
Reply:Sure, after all if he/she attemted to comit suicide its becasuse something wasnt well. But I would send a funny card also - helps releive tensions?
Reply:Do you know the person well? If so, maybe flowers would be o.k. Otherwise, I would say send a card with a nice personal note inside. You can always send something later as the person recovers and begins to feel better physically and emotionally.
Reply:should not be get well flowers but flowers of love and friendship sort of a pick me up bouquet with a note of love and care were their for you and are here anytime for you type thing only if you really mean it though........ being that you didn%26#039;t see it coming do you really care enough to send them ....they should be ta-kin in person if you really can it would really mean allot more ..send them if you cant take them but try to take them
Reply:No send them a heavy regiment of anti depressants and something to sedate them. Make them happy and send them to La La Land.


But on the flowers I don%26#039;t know. You could send them flowers. Not necessarily get well flowers. At least they would know you where thinking of them. Or you could just go see the person if you care about them. I dunno, just my two cents. Good luck.
Reply:yes because they needed it if they tried to kill themselves id tell them to take the flowers and get therapy
Reply:Yes....it is a sign of your concern for the person and they could probably use the encouragement of knowing someone cares
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t, it%26#039;s not the same as being sick and recovering from an illness. A phone call or a card that says that you were thinking of the person and you%26#039;re there to support them or to help them if you can would be much more appropriate.
Reply:I would rather send %26quot;Thinking of You%26quot; flowers instead of %26quot;Get Well%26quot;
Reply:No, they are not in the mood to appreciate flowers.
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t send flowers of any sort. I would send a Thinking of You card just to let the person know you are there if they need you.
Reply:yes, just to show them that someone cares..
Reply:ya.in significance of the person%26#039;s future is full of colors and fragrance.so he can forget the tough of suicide attempt and to fight with life
Reply:no cause its a waste of money
Reply:it%26#039;s better if you go (bring flowers with you, if ever) for a personal visit, and don%26#039;t act too serious nor concerned. just make it a happy visit. don%26#039;t talk about the event (that can come up much later, after the patient has undergone some professional therapy). flowers without you in a suicide attempt case isn%26#039;t enough. the patient may interpret it in many awkward ways. if you can%26#039;t go, better not send, but plan for a visit some time later if you really care.


i hope this helps. best wishes.
Reply:If this person is recovering from the attempt, then a sign of concern and hope is certainly appropriate.





Send the flowers along with a card and instead of the typical %26#039;get well%26#039; card, select one that let%26#039;s them know that you are concerned for their well being and that you are hoping for them to improve to a better life.





Remember, suicide is generally done for two major reasons, a lack of hope or a severe feeling of loneliness. Giving them hope and expressing your concern address both of these issues.





Good luck!
Reply:Um no, send a Pastor.
Reply:Suicide is normally a cry for help, or the result of some serious depression. So if the person is a friend of yours it would be ok to send some flowers and tell them you are thinking about them. You have them in your prayers, your grateful they are ok, and hope they can get to feeling better soon. All people desire to be loved, cared about. Good Luck and God Bless
Reply:Um..... yeah were they ever ill? As in physically? Try giving them a word of advice/support ya know... not flowers!
Reply:Ummm, I wouldn%26#039;t. Maybe a flower display for the funeral and a Condolence card.
Reply:I would send some sharper knives along with a card that says better luck next time.



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